Exhausted!
Well, it's been another crazy day. Work is a bit easier now, compared with the last 2 weeks anyway.
Left work, drove the 35 min to my mom's. Got the kids, went shopping. Home at 6:45. Made grilled cheeses and soup. Put away $125 of groceries. Put the kids to bed. At 8:00 I came down and started some laundry, tidying up the house, preparing tomorrows stew (which will cook in the crockpot whilst I slave at work. Unloaded and reloade the dishes. My back is aching. I've been feeling nausiated for about 5 hours and I think I am getting some pain in my ears/throat. Tomorrow, I am going to a 'room parent' meeting at my daughter's school. I need to be there by 6 which is why I made the stew. My mother in law will be here by 5:45 and I told her I would feed her, I didn't think she would be super keen on eating pizza... Anyway, that's also why I was tidying up on a Wednesday night. Usually the squalor grows from Monday-Friday and I spend the weekend digging out from under. My husband will be at the Indians game with a former girlfriend. Not sure why, but I've always been very comfortable with this one. No threat there. She's always been very normal and kind to me, not like someone who is trying to steal your guy. Anyway they dated in the late 80's which to me feels like 100 years ago. She has season tickets and usually takes him to at least one game/year. I don't mind. I do wonder sometimes how it is that all of his ex's like to stay friends, and I have no exes that still want to be my friend. I'm a nice person dammit, people like me.
Although, that's another interesting thing. I seem to offend people more readily when I am writing vs. speaking. I guess they can't hear my goofy tone and so something is lost there. Either that or I offend everyone and I just don't realize? Anyway, my back is breaking now (standing at kitchen counter using stupid laptop).
Guess that's as much whining as I feel like doing at the moment :-D
posted by Pepsiqueen! @ 9:35 PM
5 Comments:
Come on, chatty
Damnit, Matt is ditching me for physics! This is a conspiracy. I'm going to go damage my brain by playing games.
I will never understand why men insist on staying freidns with their exes! I just don;t get it! It usually takes me a long time to forgive and get over a break up, and I have only stayed friends with a few of the more recent boyfriends - mostly from short sharp flings. But I have had boyfriends in the past who have told me I've overreacted when I put my foot down at them spending the night at an ex-girlfriend's house, alone, oh and conveniently she only has the one bed... Err, no. Sofa or nothing. Preferably nothing! Is it an ego thing, do you think, that they need to have all the exes still flitting around them? Because only sometimes do I see any real friendship remains...
Not ego in my husband's case. One of them was his high school girlfriend, they are 43 now. It helps too that she is very heavy these days. But she is always super normal around me. And I don't think that they were immediately chummy following their split, it took years to come back around to being friends and feeling nothing when around eachother. It's the same way with the one he is gong to the game with. And he's never gone out drinking alone with these girls, or spent the night anywhere. He will probably be home by 10:00. She's not the greatest friend though, aside from the games (her taking him with her tickets) she only gets in touch when she needs help of some sort. That's okay though, if he wants a friend in need type.
There is only one ex of his that bothers me, and it's because I know she doesn't like me and I also know that she still carries some type of torch for him. When they dated it was around '83 I think, she was early 30's and he was barely 20! She's the type who doesn't have one girlfriend (a red flag I say. She's drop dead gorgeous (or was, she's 54 now!) very materialistic. A very nasty person deep down. She stalked my husband for quite some time after he had the nerve of dumping her (purportedly the 1st time that had happened to her, and she was my age back then. She's crazy and I don't like her, but she calls him at work once every 2 or 3 years... I can live with it, especially cause she's old enough to be my mum ;-)
I mean, we're all a bit insecure I think, but I trust G.
I agree with Mab I cant be friends after a break up because I take a long time to forgive
but I also see Pepsi's situ here to..
I think it depends on trust... My ex I would be like Mab and all upset why because he cant be trusted
my hubby now is a different story
not that he has any exs but if he did I would be cool as long as the exes were cool there was one computer chic
my hubby talked to and I told him I didnt want him talking with her not becuase I didnt trust him but it was her she was off
so it depends on the woman alot too
and the question is Pepsi do you really want to be friends with your exes?
are they worth your friendship?
men are like children and sometimes like little puppies lol
as in they often forget about break ups women on the other hand normally remember the why how and when it happen LOL
So maybe it isnt becuase your not nice or interesting becuase from the PC I would say that isnt the case
but that they are worth it
offend when writing is easy when I first did the pc online thing I offended alot of people and started putting LOL and :P every other line and still there are those I offend
it happens just like when your riding a tram and stumble and step on someones toes sweetie you didnt mean it so you say well I didnt mean it
I mean this and say I forgive me and all is forgiven if the person cant then there usually is more there than just what you said and you are just a avenue to be dumped on becuase the person has no other outlet.
oh see there are some we can forgive easily just not men :P
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